Misusing gratitude to instill a sense of guilt is one of the classic gaslighting tactics. Imagine that you live with someone who degrades and abuses you emotionally. Then the moment you reject their misdeeds and ghost them, you see them on “but I did everything for you” behavior. What did they do? All they did was trauma bond you and give you mistreatment.
This is a tactic to play on a toxic mix of pity and gratitude which call false gratitude. The mind slave who thanks his enslaver for the minimal crumb and pea that they get once a day. The codependent narcissist’s child being taught on drill to thank them for their negligible caring behavior, and only showing true love with gifts and material aspects of life such as food as a substitute for the emotional connection they cannot give. You can be grateful for yourself, but in this society, we see people who we perceive as suffering from greater, far greater hardships and difficulties than we do, and we then tend to feel embarrassed of our own shortcomings and our dramatized negative responses about them.
Let me tell you that, because your neighbor suffers more than you do, in your perceptuality, does not imply their issues are more important or yours less valid. Problems and beings cannot be actually “comparable” from God perspective. Minimizing your issues because you see another dying of cancer is gaslighting yourself. That is part of the narcissistic training, and it plays on pity. Pity is toxic enough, and plays directly with gratitude and pessimism.
Falling in the toxic cycle of false gratitude and false humility is depressing to live with.
If you were in this slave’s situation, what would you do? I would revolt. I would expose the colonizer’s agenda. I would feel very little real gratefulness but for the fact I still walk on Earth. Static timeloops and beliefs like that only create more feelings of unfairness and compassion for liberation.
False humility is closely related, but it is an attitude of living in a self-lowering position. Humility has been distorted from its divine true nature. Humility is balance between ego and soul. It is the willingness to keep an open mind and learn from your experiences, and to acknowledge and integrate all parts of you, including the shadow. There is no right or wrong, and the ego wants to be right. Well, the inverted ego does, not the natural ego.
False humility is based on a fear of narcissistic intentions or plain selfishness – therefore codependents seek profound meekness by giving away more than they need to. No. You have simply been taught to view your true divine abundance and power as a selfish thing to deserve. Jehovah seal implants were put into every earth humans so that the belief that you are God is viewed as delusion – well, in Middle Asian and many African cultures it’s different – they know more and are more connected to the Universe, despite all the distortions and lies. All you deserve is to fully live, abundantly, in your Godly Existence with all its intrinsic infinite knowledge and bearing. This is why there is Universal Law. Power games are not based on Universal Law – they are its reversal because it reverses the Law of One into Separationism.
So saying that humility is the willingness to recognize you have things wrong, is a dualistic belief.
Meekness and humility are also confused. Meekness is what I could actually call false humility – submissiveness disguised as a positive attitude.. You cannot remove the self-concept, even in 9D. Only your self-consciousness expands in wisdom and source information compatibility.
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